Dating is something many people look forward to. Although everyone prepares carefully and cautiously, many dates still end in tragedy. While it is said that ‘slow work yields fine craftsmanship,’ in today’s fast-paced world, how can one hold a girl’s hand on a date?
1. The body can also speak.
Pay attention to language; besides verbal expression, you should also pay attention to body language. It’s very important to remember that, whether a woman or a man, people are fundamentally visual creatures—who can see your inner self at a glance? Therefore, external presentation is very important.For example, a girl once complained to me that another male companion seemed sleazy, but I knew he was just very nervous around her. Rather than saying he was sleazy, it would be more accurate to say he was timid. Keeping your head up and chest out, showing a confident posture, greatly affects how women perceive you.
2. The Art of Speaking
Unlike chatting online, face-to-face conversation tests both the content of your speech and your emotions. If you’re sending messages on WeChat, you can always throw in a few stickers when you run out of words—but if you’re talking in person and get nervous, what can you do? I’ve already published a lot of guides on conversation topics, which you can check out in previous articles on my Toutiao account and the WeChat public account ‘Aggressive Hormones.’ Today, however, I want to emphasize the tone of voice when speaking. Putting content aside, tone of voice is actually the most revealing of a person’s emotions. During conversation, instead of racking your brain to think of what to say, it’s better to maintain a calm and composed attitude. You can be cheerful and optimistic, keeping a smiling demeanor, but you must never panic. Nervousness significantly reduces a girl’s trust in your words, while a dignified and poised attitude will always add to your appeal.
3. Appropriate physical contact
If you pay attention to the first two points, it will indeed make girls develop a liking for you. But keep in mind, today we are not talking about how to make girls like you; we are discussing how to get a girl to accept you in a short period of time.Whether in romance or interpersonal interactions, physical contact is very important. Think about your best friend—your interactions are never filled with avoidance, right? Putting an arm around each other is, for many people, the hallmark of a close friendship. However, I am talking about appropriate physical contact, not grabbing someone’s hand and touching endlessly while feeling self-satisfied.
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