Both boys and girls like people who are humorous in conversation. Therefore, when a girl meets a boy she likes, she should first use a humorous way of chatting to attract him. Even if the boy doesn’t like her, his impression of her won’t be too bad. Most girls are relatively reserved, and when facing a boy they have a crush on, they often come across as petty or overly cautious, which is not a good start. Every boy likes girls who are open and confident, as this makes conversations less awkward and tense. Humorous topics are a powerful way to break the ice.
1. Show your wit and humor. Everyone likes talking to smart and funny people because it creates a sense of ease. Your wit and humor might even attract him, which is a plus for you. Therefore, be generous in your conversation and let him see more sides of you.
2. Show your true self. If the guy really likes you, he will like your most genuine side. If you are always afraid of saying the wrong thing and don’t show your true self, he might think you are not sincere, or this might actually make him not like you.
3.You can take the initiative to chat with him, but don’t always be the one to initiate. Being too proactive may make him feel, deep down, that even if he doesn’t start a conversation with you, you will reach out to him anyway. As a result, he won’t bother thinking about what to talk to you about because you’ve already considered that.
4. Do not discuss your feelings for other boys in front of him, and do not critique others’ appearances. You might think this will make him jealous. In fact, occasionally mentioning it can have some subtle effect, but if you constantly bring it up thinking it will provoke him, you are mistaken; this will only push him further away. He will really think that you are talking to him just to learn about another boy.
5. Don’t be the only one talking; give him a chance to speak. If you keep talking because you’re afraid of running out of things to say, he might get annoyed. Conversation is a two-way thing. If you keep talking about things he doesn’t want to hear, it might make him reluctant to talk with you next time. You should let him speak and discuss topics that interest both of you.
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