Pursuing a girl is a gradual process. During this process, we need to have enough patience and also master certain skills in order to improve our success rate in pursuing girls. However, having skills alone is not enough; our mindset is also particularly important. There are three mindsets that one should never have when pursuing a girl, and most people fail exactly because of them.
1. No patience
When pursuing a girl, you need to know that we are not as outstanding as we imagine ourselves to be, so others have no reason to easily accept our pursuit. Girls are generally more cautious, especially when it comes to finding a partner; they tend to be even more careful. Unless we can touch their hearts, don’t expect them to enter into a relationship with you.
2. Ride a donkey while looking for a horse.
What kind of mindset should one have when pursuing a girl? Once you decide to love someone, you should treat her well. Regardless of what happens in the future, at least during the pursuit stage, we need to maintain a good mindset. If we always approach it with a mindset of ‘riding one horse while looking for another,’ believe me, there won’t be any girl willing to date you!
3. Overly arrogant
It’s better to be humble, especially when it comes to pursuing a girl. In the process of courting a girl, we are inherently in a more passive position. If we want to gain her approval, we need to show the proper attitude, rather than being overly arrogant or always feeling superior. In a girl’s eyes, the more arrogant a boy is, the less reliable he appears, because the more arrogant he is, the more careless he becomes, and the more careless he is, the less likely he is to handle a relationship properly.
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