What are the signs of a successful first date?

Were you very nervous on your first date? Were you so focused on presenting yourself well that you forgot to see whether the other person likes you? Don’t wait until the end of the date to suddenly realize that you still don’t know how the other person feels about you, or whether the date was successful! So, what are the signs of a successful first date? Sometimes during the date itself, the other person will show whether they have a liking for you! Let’s find out together!

1. The micro-expression when I first saw you

Generally, when strangers of opposite genders go on a blind date, they judge each other based on first impressions. If the other person shows a happy expression upon seeing you for the first time, it’s likely that they think you are nice; if the other person shows a blank or disdainful expression (though most people try to control this emotion), it indicates that this date is likely to fail!

2. You also have common interests/language.

After the two people go on a date, they start talking to each other and getting to know each other. If you find that on every topic or every matter discussed, you share compatible views, she is likely to have a good impression of you. However, if every topic you discuss ends before getting deep, or if you are always voicing opposing opinions, then this date is definitely not going to be successful!

3. The other person’s state and micro-expressions during the date

When you are chatting, if the other person is always playing with their phone and barely responds to what you say, or looks elsewhere while talking, then this date is unlikely to succeed; if, on the other hand, the other person listens attentively and responds occasionally while you talk, your date is very likely to succeed!

4. Duration of the Date

The length of a date can also reflect how much the other person likes you. If the date has just started and they already make an excuse to leave, then this date is a hundred percent a failure; if you expected the date to last only about two hours, but you end up talking for three or four hours, it shows that the other person is very interested in you, and your date has been very successful!