A comfortable date spot can naturally make both people want to get to know each other. A good dating environment allows you to chat, get to know each other better, and even flirt a little—so why not? But what kind of date location will make a girl feel comfortable? Today, I’m going to give you the most comprehensive guide ever, from easy to advanced, sharing six date spots that will never go wrong. Places where you can both have engaging conversations and enjoy yourselves.
1. Café
For dating, coffee shops are really a safe and good choice. Compared to noisy, high-consumption places like bars, coffee shops can be said to have a comfortable environment and are economical.At the same time, as a place that can serve as both a transition and a continuation, whether you choose to meet before or after a meal, arranging to chat at a coffee shop is the best plan for both you and her.Therefore, making good use of the time in a coffee shop can help you quickly get to know each other better, while also subtly showcasing your taste and preferences.For example, talking about the decor in a coffee shop is a great choice. If you visit a coffee shop with a very Japanese-style design, you could say:‘I quite like the style of this shop. Although Japanese-style is simple, it is very comfortable—concise without losing rigor and elegance. I plan to design my home in a similar style in the future.’
2. Supermarket
Supermarkets are a dating spot that most guys wouldn’t think of. Although it sounds very ordinary and bustling, it lacks a bit of romance and charm.
But dating in such an environment actually gives you a feeling of ‘a young couple living their daily life.’ You don’t need to specifically say to the girl, ‘Let’s go on a supermarket date,’ because that would be awkward.You can casually buy some water after a meal, or suggest buying her some snacks when you accompany her home. This feels the most natural and won’t make the girl think you’re strange.A supermarket date gives you endless topics about daily life to talk about, like ‘Can you cook?’ ‘What kind of snacks do you like?’ ‘This fish is so big,’ or ‘This instant noodle’s spokesperson,’ and so on.
3. Park
Although this location is ordinary, going for a walk in the park when the weather is pleasant can serve as a transitional spot and help keep your mood cheerful. At the same time, the effect of the park is similar to that of a supermarket, giving you both a feeling of a ‘long-married couple taking a stroll after a meal.’ If you plan to include a park in your date itinerary, remember to remind the girl in advance not to wear high heels, otherwise she might quickly want to throw her shoes at your face.
4. Arcade
Although this place is noisy, if you are a pure-hearted boy who is not very good at socializing or at getting girls emotionally engaged, going to an arcade can help you ease awkwardness and quickly break the ice. Because a high-social-energy place like an arcade can quickly elevate your mood.
5. Bar
There are two types of bars: one is a quiet bar, where the environment is similar to a café, making it very suitable for changing venues or sitting down to chat. The effect of going to a quiet bar is actually similar to that of a café, so it can’t truly be considered a genuine bar experience.The other type is a bar with live band performances. If you go to such a loud place, the first thing is to make sure you do not have social anxiety. If you worry about the noisy environment, just sitting on the sofa and having a drink won’t feel awkward.With alcohol and music, the social energy is high, which makes a bar a particularly suitable place for subtle physical interaction, whether you want to test a girl’s feelings toward you or stir up her emotions.When drinking in a bar, once you’ve had a drink, you should relax. You can pretend to be tired and rest your hand on the back of her seat, leaning close to whisper in her ear.If she moves her body in the opposite direction, she is sending you a signal: although she trusts you, she only sees you as a friend for now and does not want things to be ambiguous between you.If she not only doesn’t move away but naturally continues to chat with you, even leaning toward you, that means she not only doesn’t mind but is actually quite fond of you.From there, you just need to continue behaving normally and interacting with her naturally. Unless she is already your girlfriend, overly forward physical contact will only hurt your chances with her.
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